Divorce is no longer a story of failure, shame, and isolation.
Navigating divorce or the end of a long-term relationship from a place of strength and empowerment doesn’t just happen.
Creators and co-founders Hillary Livingston (l) and Bethany Pace (r) founded Sincerely, Divorced to build community around an often shamed shared experience, deliver compassionate advice with a dose of humor, and to spread hope for rebuilding and what life can look like after divorce.
“Embrace the bold idea that your happiest days are ahead.”
One breakdown and glow up at a time.
community for all
We disrupt the stigma and isolation of divorce—together.
Sincerely, Divorced is eradicating the narrative of failure and shame and the isolation of divorce by giving you strategies to face divorce, heal, and rebuild with confidence and community.
This space is unique because it’s intentionally inclusive—all genders, ages, identities, and relationship types are welcome (the more the merrier). We are stronger because we are healing together across a diversity of experiences.
Sincerely, Divorced has followers who are still (happily) married but want to help someone they love. Many are in the early stages of considering divorce (facing it is hard). Many are in the trenches of divorce—both high-conflict, amicable, and everything in between. And many are living their best life post-divorce while rebuilding. Wherever you are, this is a place where hope always wins.
Authentic Advice
In our newsletter, we share advice about divorce, coparenting, normalizing divorce, navigating the expected and unexpected landmines, and the brave work of rebuilding a new life with community. Subscribe.
In-Person Gatherings
We disrupt the loneliness and isolation of divorce by bringing people together in fun and inspiring ways. When you come to a Sincerely, Divorced event in Baltimore or beyond, you leave with a friend. Attend.
Weekly Show
We go live every Thursday at 7 p.m ET. on Instagram, to talk about about divorce, coparenting, dating, wellness & more. Watch for great guests, deep conversations, and lots of laughs. Watch.
Membership Community
‘Hello New Life’ is a supportive and empowering space for deeper connection and understanding by specific areas of need and relevance (e.g., infidelity, coparenting, etc.) to your journey. Launches in 2026. Join the waitlist.
Shop small this season
Sincerely, Divorced merch is all about reclaiming your narrative and your future. Celebrate your progress one breakdown and glow up at a time while remembering that you are never alone.
connect and Grow
Our private support group launches soon
‘Hello New Life’ is a private membership community that connect small groups of individuals sharing common, very specific divorce experiences like infidelity, dating over 40, and more.
These spaces facilitate conversation, knowledge-sharing, and connection to tools and resources that allow you to have a more personalized divorce and rebuilding journey.
Find hope, find community, find your future.
Nearly a half a million people know that being part of the Sincerely, Divorced community is life-changing. Here’s what they’re saying:
Thank you for the impact you’ve had in my life. Your account has made me feel seen. Finding your page has honestly made it worth getting divorced.
Juan P., Florida
I love what you guys do and that it’s grown to reach all over the world. The funny reels you make are amazing.
Michelle S., Australia
This community, the people running it, the ones who show up and comment and support…literally keeping me afloat. I’m at the crossroads of leaving my marriage after years of addiction and infidelity.
Erin E., Virginia
Blog posts
Reflections and advice from our personal divorce journeys and suggested reads, resources, and hope.
SHOP OUR merch
You deserve to celebrate
Three collections, three ways to announce your freedom. Overcoming adversity should always be celebrated and our t-shirts, hats, mugs, and stickers are a way to do it publicly. This is all about reclaiming the narrative and our new lives. We ship worldwide!
CLINICAL CODE COLLECTION
Want to celebrate that you survived a narcissist or a psychopath? This collection featuring the codes that medical billers and healthcare providers is the perfect inside joke and a way to secretly call your ex what they are.
SINCERELY COLLECTION
When someone asks “sincerely what,” you get to tell them anything you want—whether you say “sincerely divorced,” “sincerely happy,” or you it’s an internal reminder that you’re part of this amazing community and we’re all rooting for you! #youarenotalone.
LOVE ISLAND COLLECTION
Inspired by the comeback “she didn’t steal my man, she stole my problem” on Love Island Australia, a breakup never felt so good with this epic reframe.
Data over drama
There is finally a one stop shop for organizing your divorce, saving time, and spending less. Try Splitifi for free today.
Our Ebooks
Dating After Divorce: How to Know If You’re Ready
$10
Navigate modern dating with clarity and confidence. Reflect on your emotional needs, learn to communicate what you want, and redefine what love and partnership mean to you now.
What Matters to Children of Divorce
$10
Ensure your child’s wellness—whether they’re 2 or 22. This guide helps you understand their emotional world and foster security, empathy, and connection through every stage of change.
Hello New Life Journal
$5
30 days of gentle prompts and affirmations to help you reflect on where you’ve been, stay grounded in where you are, and open your heart to what’s ahead.
Hope & Healing Through Divorce
$13
Our most comprehensive guide yet. Reconnect with your values, rediscover your true self, and step boldly into the life you deserve. Includes strategies, exercises, and practical tools for every stage of healing.
Our guiding principles
No shame and more love
Sincerely, Divorced is a community comprised of all walks of life, genders, ages, identities, and relationship types. We are a living and breathing example that healing and hope can win. We are advocates for belonging and platonic love while normalizing the notion that a person’s life doesn’t end just because their romantic relationship did.
Disrupting the divorce experience
This community is reframing the negative perceptions of divorce and gathering powerful translational research about relationship dissolution and community. We value knowledge creation, curiosity, and partner with colleges and universities, schools, community organizations, and experts to advance our message and support others.
Helping more people
We love collaborations that expand our ability to help people and raise awareness of important issues. We seek out those that align with our core values as a promise to our community that what we share is always trustworthy, resonant, and practical. Reach out to us if our work resonates with you. If it does, let’s grow our aligned communities together.
Features & Partnerships
Sincerely, Divorced has been featured in major media outlets and podcasts, presented at international conferences, and established partnerships with organizations, businesses, and universities to advance our mission to change the narrative of divorce and rebuilding.
Want to work with us?
Whether it’s a podcast interview, keynote, a fireside chat, or a large conference, Bethany’s and Hillary’s insights, stories, and research findings help demystify the divorce experience, build community, and inspire hope and humor for anyone navigating adversity and life transition.
We also have a large and diverse local and global platform to share professional resources and brands that make the life transitions of separation, divorce, co-parenting, and dating easier for members of our community. More importantly, people trust us and what we say.
To inquire about working with us, book a call or email us at hello@sincerelydivorced.com.
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