About

We are changing the way the world sees divorce

Hillary Livingston, M.S. and Bethany Pace, M.Ed. are the creators and co-founders of Sincerely, Divorced, a vibrant in-person and online community built around reframing an often-shamed shared experience. They deliver compassionate advice with a dose of humor, research and teach about positive reframing, and spread hope for rebuilding one’s life after navigating adversity and major life transitions.

The impact of their work has been recognized and felt worldwide. In addition to running their very popular Instagram page, Hillary and Bethany are the minds behind Divorce-Con™ and The Show About Divorce, and the people who send handwritten notes of encouragement to people on every continent except Antarctica and write chalk messages outside of courthouses and other visible places to give others hope.

Their mission is simple: to acknowledge and celebrate the fortitude it takes to face and overcome life’s adversities, one breakdown and glow-up at a time. In the end, Bethany and Hillary are dedicated to helping people embrace the bold idea that their happiest days are ahead.

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Bethany Pace, M.Ed.

CEO & Co-Founder

Bethany holds a B.A. in journalism and an M.Ed. in counseling, both from The Pennsylvania State University.

Hillary Livingston, M.S.

COO & Co-Founder

Hillary holds a B.S. in psychology and an M.S. in human resource development, both from Towson University.

positive reframing and optimism
divorce after 20+ years marriage & gray divorce
amicable co-parenting with your ex-spouse (and their new partner)
tween & young adult divorce transition and adjustment
religion, faith, and divorce
dating and companionship in mid-life
cultural and socioeconomic nuances of divorce
LGBTQ divorce and intersectional identities

disenfranchised grief
attachment styles
navigating divorce with young children
divorcing while pregnant and as a SAHM
marital infidelity
covert narcissist abuse
navigating family support
dating after divorce
millennial divorce

Speaking

We’re on a mission

Transform the lives of people in your organization or community with Sincerely, Divorced’s modern philosophy of divorce and how to overcome life’s adversities and rebuild from a place of hope and empowerment.

Bethany Pace and Hillary Livingston are internationally recognized leaders and researchers in relationship dissolution and wellness, community-builders, and keynote speakers. They are known for their authenticity and ability to apply hope and humor to difficult topics in a way that transforms life transitions into powerful opportunities for growth and realization.

Whether it’s a keynote, workshop, or a conference, Bethany’s and Hillary’s insights, stories, and warmth will help you support the people you care about.

To inquire about speaking engagements please email: hello@sincerelydivorced.com

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Whether we are sending handwritten notes of encouragement around the world or writing chalk messages outside of courthouses, your donation of any amount helps pay for supplies, postage, and travel to all the places we go to spread hope and kindness. Thank you for being part of our mission to disrupt the isolation of adversity people experience.

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